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How to Take Control of Your Money (So You Can Take Control of Your Future Home)

If you want to buy a home, build wealth, or finally feel confident with your finances, one thing has to happen first:

You must take control of your money before it starts controlling you.

Most people were never taught how to manage money. They were taught how to work hard, not how to build a financial life that works for them.



This guide cuts through the confusion and gives you a simple, clear, step-by-step system to understand your money, manage it with confidence, and build a foundation strong enough for homeownership.

Why Money Management Matters Before You Buy a Home

Financial stress is one of the biggest reasons people:

• Get denied for mortgages
• Avoid applying altogether
• Feel overwhelmed or embarrassed
• Stay stuck renting longer than necessary
• Miss out on opportunities to build wealth

Lenders don’t just look at your income — they evaluate how you manage your income.



Getting your finances in order now protects your approval later.

Step 1 - Know Your Numbers (The Foundation of Financial Control)

You can’t change what you can’t see.
Start with the basics:

✔ Calculate Your Monthly Net Income

Include:

• Job income
• Side income
• Benefits
• Business revenue
• Consistent deposits

Document everything.
Income clarity = financial power.

✔ Track Your Spending

For the next 30 days, track every dollar you spend.

Use:

• Mint
• EveryDollar
• Rocket Money
• A simple Google Sheet

You’ll quickly see:

• Overspending patterns
• Waste
• Subscription creep
• Lifestyle habits
• Areas for optimization

✔ Review Your Debts

List out:

• Balances
• Minimum payments
• Interest rates
• Due dates
• Which ones hurt your DTI

This will help you create a targeted repayment plan.

Step 2 - Build a Simple, Stress-Free Budget

Most budgets fail because they are too restrictive.
You need one that works long-term.

Try This Easy Formula

50 / 30 / 20 Method

• 50% needs
• 30% wants
• 20% savings & debt reduction

Or use my preferred homebuyer-friendly structure:
70 / 20 / 10 Method

• 70% living expenses
• 20% debt payoff
• 10% savings

You pick the system that fits your lifestyle.

Step 3- Build an Emergency Cushion

A lender wants to see you can handle unexpected expenses.
Not thousands — just stability.

Aim for:

• $1000–$2,500 starter cushion
• 6–12 months reserves (if preparing to buy within 6–12 months). This is being very aggressive due to the state of the current economy.

This isn’t about being rich.
It’s about showing lenders you’re reliable.

Step 4 - Optimize Your Debt (Without Feeling Broke)

Debt is not the enemy — unmanaged debt is.

Here’s how to take control:

✔ Target High-Interest Debts First

Credit cards. Personal loans. Store cards.

✔ Keep All Accounts Current

No late payments — underwriters look back 12–24 months.

✔ Avoid Closing Old Accounts

This drops your score instantly.

✔ Pick a Debt Strategy

• Debt Snowball: pay smallest first
• Debt Avalanche: pay highest interest first
• DTI Optimization: focus on debts harming your ratios

Your approval strategy determines the best method.

Step 5 - Create a Savings Strategy That Actually Works

Saving money shouldn’t feel like punishment.

Automate Everything

• Automated savings transfers
• Automated bill pay
• Automated sinking funds
• Automated debt payments

Automation = discipline without stress.

Save With a Purpose

When saving is tied to a goal, consistency increases.

Set sinking funds for:

• Home savings
• Down payment
• Emergency cushion
• Moving costs
• Furniture (post-closing, not pre-approval!)
  

Step 6 - Strengthen Your Financial Mindset

Money mastery is 10% math and 90% mindset.

Stop believing:

• “I’m not good with money.”
• “I’ll never get ahead.”
• “My finances are too messy.”
• “I’m too behind to buy a house.”
• “I don’t make enough.”

These beliefs create hesitation — and hesitation delays approval.

Shift to:

• “I can learn this.”
• “My finances can improve quickly.”
• “I deserve financial stability.”
• “The right strategy can change everything.”

Your mindset is part of your approval.

Step 7 - Align Your Finances With Your Homeownership Goals

Once your finances are stable, you’re ready to take the next step:

✔ Assess your readiness

✔ Fix the right financial issues

✔ Get lender-ready

✔ Build a realistic timeline

✔ Begin your A.P.P.R.O.V.E. Path™

Financial stability → Confidence → Approval.

Signs You’re Ready to Move Toward Homeownership

You might be closer than you think if:

✔ You understand your monthly cash flow

✔ You’re building an emergency cushion

✔ You’re paying debts on time

✔ You can avoid new credit mistakes

✔ You can follow a simple plan

✔ You’re ready to build financial discipline

✔ You're motivated to stop renting

If this is you?
You’re ready for Step 1.

Ready to Take Control of Your Finances? Start Step 1.

You don’t need perfection — you need a plan.

Start here:

👉 Take the Homebuyer Readiness Quiz
or
👉 Book a Discovery Call

Your money doesn’t get better with time.
It gets better with strategy.

And you don’t have to do it alone.